In a recent interview, my mentor said a line which stuck with me. She said - "If it is easy, it won't be worth it. If it is worth it, it won't be easy." I was listening intently as she explained it in a kind way. I have always noticed some contradictory views about this. Namaste and welcome to 'A piece of my learning' and let me share my take for the same.

    We often come across this saying, "If it is easy, it is not worth it. If it is worth it, it won't be easy" in our pursuit of success, happiness, and personal growth. These words encapsulate a fundamental truth about life's challenges and the rewards that come with overcoming them. While we may wish for an effortless path to our goals, the reality is that true fulfillment and achievement usually require perseverance, resilience, and hard work. Let us see what it means and understand the wisdom behind it.

The Illusion of Easy:

    In today's fast-paced and convenience-driven world, we are often conditioned to seek instant gratification and immediate results. We are bombarded with messages promising quick fixes, shortcuts, and easy solutions. This mindset can lead us to believe that anything worth pursuing should come effortlessly. However, this perspective fails to acknowledge the profound growth and transformation that occurs when we face challenges head-on.

The Value of Struggle:

    It is through adversity that we truly discover our capabilities and potential. The challenges we encounter serve as catalysts for personal development, pushing us beyond our comfort zones and forcing us to grow. The journey towards meaningful accomplishments is often marked by setbacks, failures, and obstacles. It is during these trying moments that our character is tested, and our determination is fortified.

    A very apt example would be that of a tea bag since I am a tea person. I was once making tea and forgot to ignite the stove. I added tea leaves in the pot and there was no change in the color of the water. I was not getting fragrance either. I realized my mistake and quickly ignited the stove. 

    It was only after the water was boiling, the tea leaves gave out their color and fragrance to the water. So imagine we are a tea bag or tea leaves, we wont be able to bring out true potential until and unless we are put in a tea pot filled with hot boiling water.

Embracing the Discomfort:

    When we understand that worthwhile endeavors demand sacrifice and discomfort, we can approach challenges with a different mindset. Instead of avoiding difficulties or seeking the path of least resistance, we can choose to embrace them as opportunities for growth. By reframing our perception of struggle, we can shift our focus from seeking comfort to pursuing purpose and meaning.

    Overcoming obstacles not only helps us build resilience but also provides us with a sense of fulfillment and satisfaction. When we face and conquer challenges, we gain confidence in our abilities and become more equipped to tackle even greater feats. It is the combination of effort, perseverance, and the occasional stumble that ultimately leads us to success and self-fulfillment.

Finding Balance:

    Now this is what I was keen to share. While it is essential to recognize the value of hard work and perseverance, it is equally important to find a balance between exertion and self-care. Pushing ourselves relentlessly without allowing for rest and rejuvenation can lead to burnout and diminish our overall well-being. Therefore, it is crucial to cultivate a holistic approach to success, which includes self-compassion, self-care, and maintaining a healthy work-life balance.

    I would like to add one more thing. We should not diminish the things we got easily either. Just because it took less efforts on our part, it can still hold a considerable value for us. All we must focus on changing our attitude or mindset when we are struggling or when something demands our efforts.

    In the end the statement serves as a reminder that life's greatest achievements require effort, determination, and resilience. By embracing challenges, pushing past our comfort zones, and persevering through adversity, we unlock our full potential and embark on a journey of personal growth and fulfillment. So, let us embrace the discomfort, relinquish the desire for instant gratification, and embark on the path that leads to a life rich with purpose, meaning, and true accomplishment. All this while ensuring a balance and open mindset.

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