Lessons from 2023: The Power of Surrounding Yourself with the Right People
December 30, 2023 Now that we step into a new year, it's not just about resolutions and aspirations; it's about the valuable lessons we carry forward from the previous year. One profound takeaway from the year 2023 is the importance of the environment for growth and success. Now you will ask - What do I mean by environment? Does it mean the trees, flowers, and animals? Well, not that kind of environment. Environment means three things - physical, digital, and emotional. Let me get into the details of it. Namaste and welcome to 'A piece of my learning.'
Physical environment -
We always get motivation and energy from our surroundings. For example, if my desk is clean and arranged, I feel like studying; If my bed is made, I will feel like resting; If I have a jar of water at my workplace or bedside, I will stay hydrated. Our physical environment matters a lot when we are trying to get things done. If things are messy, we feel like procrastinating or postponing the task we have undertaken.
So what can you do? You can start with a small hobby of keeping your resting area or working area clean. As long as you follow this, you will be in the best possible environment.
Digital environment -
Digital environment means what content we consume on a daily basis through social media and other means. If you watch the negative news or the pessimistic daily soaps every day, your mind will soon get aligned with that thought process. You will eventually start thinking negatively about all the things.
On the contrary, if you follow the people who inspire you and provide you with essential content for your growth, you will also become optimistic. You will be constantly motivated to achieve your goals and become successful.
So what can you do? You can start following the people or content creators who inspire you to become better at what you do. They help you become the better version of yourself. But more importantly, you must unfollow people who play no role whatsoever in your life. Just watching someone's cool pictures on Instagram or an update on WhatsApp does not make you any less than yesterday. So instead of sulking over your life, you can unfollow such people and only follow those who leave a positive imprint on your life.
Emotional environment -
Now emotional environment is the crucial factor. The emotional environment simply means surrounding yourself with people with the right kind of attitude. Let me tell you why surrounding yourself with the right community or set of people is important.
Positive Energy is Contagious:
When you surround yourself with individuals who radiate optimism and encouragement, their positive energy becomes contagious. This uplifting atmosphere enhances your mood and fuels your motivation to pursue your goals. Choose friends, mentors, and colleagues who inspire and uplift you on your journey.
Shared Values Build Strong Foundations:
The right people are those who share similar values and principles. Whether in personal relationships or professional collaborations, aligning with individuals who resonate with your core beliefs creates a solid foundation. Shared values promote understanding, cooperation, and a sense of belonging, fostering an environment where everyone can thrive and contribute meaningfully.
Diverse Perspectives Fuel Growth:
Diversity in relationships introduces a multitude of perspectives and ideas. Surrounding yourself with people from different backgrounds, cultures, and experiences broadens your horizons.
Constructive Criticism is a Catalyst for Improvement:
The right people are not just cheerleaders; they are also honest critics who provide constructive feedback. Embracing constructive criticism is an essential part of personal and professional development. Individuals who genuinely care about your growth will offer insights and suggestions that help you overcome challenges and refine your skills.
Mutual Support Nurtures Resilience:
Life is full of ups and downs, and having a support system is crucial during challenging times. The right people are those who stand by you through thick and thin, offering a helping hand and words of encouragement. Mutual support creates a resilient network that can weather the storms of life, making the journey more manageable and meaningful.
The right kind of environment is so important to grow in life, be it physical, digital, or emotional. However, there is one such place, where you can get all these things together - Mazavyapar community. Our community is the place where we consistently consume the right content throughout the year. All the community members share the same values, bring in diverse perspectives, provide constructive criticism, and yet provide mutual support for growth. If you have one stop shop for everything that I said, wouldn't you want to grab on to that opportunity? You can also reach out to me if you want to learn new skills or wish to have an accountability partner. I would love to be a support in your journey towards your goals. Thank you so much for all the support you readers have given me in 2023. I hope to see your continued support in the future as well. Happy New Year to all the readers!
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1 comments
I feel there is an urgnet need to set up the Digital environment and the very first step anyone can take is by turning off the notifications of their phone.
ReplyDeleteNice article Chinmay. Keep writing.