Amazing life secrets - Work life and Social contribution
May 25, 2024
Namaste and welcome to 'A piece of my learning.' I want to talk about the next segment from the book - Life's Amazing Secrets by author Gaur Gopal Das. This one is quite relatable as it speaks about work life. Let me summarize what I learned from a couple of chapters related to third wheel called work life.
Navigating Competition:
While talking about the workplace, author talks about workplace politics and how we navigate in such environments. Sometimes, we compare ourselves with others in a way that makes us feel bad about ourselves. This happens when we want what others have or when we want to be better than them.
It's always better to focus on becoming the best version of ourselves rather than trying to beat others. In the places where we work, there can be a lot of politics, but we should try to deal with them fairly and honestly. If we engage in unfair practices then you will feel the effect of that down the line in your life.
Discovering Yourself:
Figuring out what we want to do with our lives takes time and thinking. The Japanese have a concept called 'ikigai,' which is about finding what makes us happy, what we're good at, what the world needs, and what we can get paid for has been addressed in this chapter.
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You must be wondering how to be sure about your life's purpose at a younger age. Even if we're not sure about our purpose yet, we can start by doing things we enjoy and finding meaning in them.
Understanding Spirituality at Work:
Some people think that being spiritual means you don't care about success, but that's not true. Spirituality can actually make us want to be successful so we can help others. This was a clicking point. A lot of people think that having a lot of money or success makes them forget their humanity but there are a lot of people who feel like they can help others after being successful.
Some people think that being spiritual means you don't care about success, but that's not true. Spirituality can actually make us want to be successful so we can help others. This was a clicking point. A lot of people think that having a lot of money or success makes them forget their humanity but there are a lot of people who feel like they can help others after being successful.
It's important to stick to our values even in business, like being honest and fair. But we also need to be careful that chasing money doesn't distract us from what really matters.
Building Integrity and Character:
What we do is more important than what we say. Our actions show what kind of person we are. You know the phrase - Action speaks louder than words. We should follow our beliefs, act on them, and show them to the world. By doing this, we leave behind a positive impact on others. That's the way to build our integrity and character.
Then we focus on the fourth wheel essential for achieving the perfect balance in life’s journey: social contribution.
What we do is more important than what we say. Our actions show what kind of person we are. You know the phrase - Action speaks louder than words. We should follow our beliefs, act on them, and show them to the world. By doing this, we leave behind a positive impact on others. That's the way to build our integrity and character.
Then we focus on the fourth wheel essential for achieving the perfect balance in life’s journey: social contribution.
The Philosophy of Selfless Sacrifice
Gaur Gopal Das presents a profound philosophy on selfless sacrifice. He juxtaposes the philosophy of an ice cream, which is to savor life before it melts away, with that of a candle, which illuminates others before it is consumed. To attain true happiness, we must transition from being like ice cream (selfish) to being like a candle (selfless), embodying this shift through acts of service.
Gaur Gopal Das presents a profound philosophy on selfless sacrifice. He juxtaposes the philosophy of an ice cream, which is to savor life before it melts away, with that of a candle, which illuminates others before it is consumed. To attain true happiness, we must transition from being like ice cream (selfish) to being like a candle (selfless), embodying this shift through acts of service.
Ice cream (Selfish) and Candle (selfless) philosophy
The Battle Between Selfishness and Selflessness
Many of us grapple with the ongoing conflict between selfishness and selflessness, particularly in scenarios that evoke a virtuous versus vicious cycle. When faced with unjust behavior, the temptation to perpetuate the vicious cycle is strong. However, the benevolent voice within urges us to break this cycle and initiate a virtuous one through acts of kindness.
Many of us grapple with the ongoing conflict between selfishness and selflessness, particularly in scenarios that evoke a virtuous versus vicious cycle. When faced with unjust behavior, the temptation to perpetuate the vicious cycle is strong. However, the benevolent voice within urges us to break this cycle and initiate a virtuous one through acts of kindness.
Balancing Selflessness with Self-Care
In our pursuit of selflessness, it is crucial to be wary of compassion fatigue. Maintaining a balance in our lives epitomizes the principle of being "selfishly selfless." This balance is achieved not through grand gestures, but through consistent, meaningful contributions to the well-being of those around us. But how can ordinary individuals like us begin practicing this?
In our pursuit of selflessness, it is crucial to be wary of compassion fatigue. Maintaining a balance in our lives epitomizes the principle of being "selfishly selfless." This balance is achieved not through grand gestures, but through consistent, meaningful contributions to the well-being of those around us. But how can ordinary individuals like us begin practicing this?
Family First
Daily Acts of Kindness
- Listening and Supporting: Actively listen to family members, providing emotional support and understanding.
- Sharing Responsibilities: Participate in household chores to alleviate the burden on others.
- Celebrating Successes: Acknowledge and celebrate the achievements and milestones of family members, fostering a supportive environment.
Quality fam time!
Sacrifices for Family
- Well-being Time and Attention: Devote quality time to family, setting aside personal distractions and work commitments.
- Financial Support: Contribute to family finances, assisting with expenses, education, and healthcare.
- Personal Growth: Encourage and support the personal and professional development of family members.
Expanding Selflessness to the Nation
Our selflessness should extend beyond our immediate family to encompass our community and nation. By broadening this circle, we can serve effectively, much like the dedicated efforts of soldiers and civil servants.
Our selflessness should extend beyond our immediate family to encompass our community and nation. By broadening this circle, we can serve effectively, much like the dedicated efforts of soldiers and civil servants.
Community Service
- Volunteering: Engage in local community projects such as cleaning drives, educational programs, or assisting at food banks.
- Mentoring: Provide guidance and mentorship to young people in the community, helping them develop skills and confidence.
- Supporting Local Businesses: Promote and support local enterprises, thereby contributing to the local economy and community well-being.
- Civic Engagement: Stay informed about national issues and participate in civic duties like voting and attending town hall meetings.
- Supporting Veterans and Soldiers: Participate in initiatives that support veterans and active-duty soldiers, such as writing letters, fundraising, or volunteering at veteran support organizations.
- Public Service Careers: Consider careers in public service, such as teaching, healthcare, or civil service, where the focus is on serving the public good.
The Joy of Service
In Sanskrit, the concept of service is known as "seva," and adding a spiritual element can enhance its fulfillment. By connecting with the divine, we utilize our skills to serve others.
In Sanskrit, the concept of service is known as "seva," and adding a spiritual element can enhance its fulfillment. By connecting with the divine, we utilize our skills to serve others.
Incorporating Seva
- Understanding Seva: Embrace "seva" (selfless service) as a spiritual practice, recognizing the profound fulfillment it brings.
- Service with Intention: Perform acts of service with genuine intention and compassion, aiming to alleviate the suffering of others.
- Connecting with Spirituality: Draw strength and inspiration from spiritual practices and beliefs, using them to fuel your commitment to selflessness.
Balancing Selflessness and Self-Care
A harmonious balance between serving others and tending to your own needs is essential to avoid burnout and prevent compassion fatigue. Here are some strategies:
A harmonious balance between serving others and tending to your own needs is essential to avoid burnout and prevent compassion fatigue. Here are some strategies:
- Self-Reflection: Regularly reflect on your actions and intentions, ensuring they align with your values and capacities.
- Seeking Support: Don’t hesitate to seek support from others when needed, acknowledging that self-care is crucial for sustained service.
By integrating these principles into our lives, we can embark on a journey from selfishness to selflessness, enriching not only our own lives but also the lives of those around us.
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1 comments
One should try selfless service to understand who they really are.
ReplyDeleteNicely written Chinmay.
Waiting for some more articles.